It’s so easy to tell someone you love them, but can you show
your love without using words? Great actions always speak louder than great
words and when it comes to love, it’s important to learn how to express your
love without words. Did you remember that guy who said that he loved you many
times, but it was in word only and he didn’t back up his confession with
gestures? Sure, it doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t tell someone you love them.
Just try to show your partner, friend or parent you love them once in a while
in order to have stronger relationship.
1. Make time for them
No matter how busy you are, you should always find time for
those you love. You might have plenty of important tasks and meetings and maybe
your partner, parent or friend understand it. But it’s not difficult to pick
the phone to call them and ask how their day is going. Or, take a small break
and drink coffee together. A weekend picnic is also a great idea.
2. Listen to them
One of the simplest ways to show your love without words is
to listen to them. Listen to each word they say even when it’s boring or you
just don’t like the topic of conversation. If they ask you whether they’ve told
you this story before, why not say “Yes, but could you tell it again because
I’ve forgotten some details?” If they love telling this particular story over
and over again, don’t interrupt and simply listen to them.
3. Kisses and hugs
When it comes to showing somebody you love them without
using words, the warmth of kisses and hugs are the best. Whether it’s a kiss
good morning or good night or a hug to let them know you care or simply miss
them, this is a great way to express your love.
4. Make their life easier
I don’t mean to give them money or accomplish all their tasks
or do anything like this. I mean to do the small things such as taking out the
trash or buying necessary foods without being asked, or doing something that
they don’t enjoy doing. Although it may seem like little things, if you do them
you can make the person’s life a bit easier.
5. Random surprise
I love random surprises and I’m pretty sure most of you love
them too. When you listen to everything the person says, you learn a lot about
them. Once at a supermarket I unintentionally said to my boyfriend what my
favorite childhood ice cream was. Since then, every time I’m upset or
depressed, he brings me a pint of it. I’m glad that he remembered this little
thing and this shows that he really listens to me and loves me. He often makes
breakfast in bed for me and I try to do the same every now and then. I think
it’s a sweet gesture of the affection.
6. Send a care package
If someone you love lives far away from you, why not send
them a care package? When it comes to love, distance is not a problem and you
can still show them you really care about them. A package of the small things
you know they’ll need or like is what you need to show your love without words.
7. Cook for them
Many people typically cook on special occasions such as
Thanksgiving Day, Christmas, Valentine’s Day and birthdays, but why not cook
something special for someone you love? Figure out their favorite meal and try
to make it today. You can even cook it and surprise the person at their
workplace or college.
8. Support them
Everyone makes mistakes, it’s human nature. So it’s
important to support someone you love during the hard times. Even if you told
them not to do it, but they still did it and now regret it, don’t tell them “I
told you so.” Support them and tell that we need mistakes and everybody messes
up, we just have to learn from them and move on.
Learning to show your love without words doesn’t have to be
difficult; even the smallest thing can make a big difference in someone’s day.
Feel free to express yourself through your good actions instead of telling
words but make sure you do it sincerely. How do you show your love without
words?
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